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Quote of the day:

Tired of bein’ so screwed up, so screwed up, so screwed up … Annie Lennox

Over eight years ago, Bill, you screwed up. Badly. Really badly. And you delivered us into the hands of George W. Bush. I had such hopes and dreams for your presidency. But, you broke my heart and the soul of the nation. You said sorry. Yes indeed. You apologized. And many of us forgave you. I know I did.

But now, you are doing it again.

I am a baby boomer too, Bill. Just like you. And for the longest time I did not understand what it meant to be an adult. Until quite recently, in fact. If I can do it, so can you. Don’t you think it’s time to become an adult, Bill? I mean, think before you speak or act, man. Get out of the way.

I don’t care about Hillary. She made her bed with you a long time ago, made her choices and stood firm by them. That’s all right by me. I trust and respect her judgment and life choices. She is a life sister, no doubt about it, and I wish her well.

But, I have moved on – towards integrity and hope, and am sick and tired of being sick and tired. Am looking forward to a time when the name Clinton becomes part of past history, when we can sigh and shake our heads in fond memory as we tell old stories.

If you want to carry on carrying on, doing and apologizing, doing and apologizing, enjoy yourself, Bill.

But, I am joining Barack Obama and all those people out there, who are getting busy. Right here, right now, the future is upon us, and I intend to grab it
with all I have. There’s a nation and world to heal – lots to
accomplish.

It’s sad for me, a loss, as I bid you farewell. There is always a feeling of loss when we give up a life stage.

For now though, I’d rather go with a guy who admits that he did inhale.

A year ago on a Friday in February at Mining Nuggets: Mundane

Quote of the day:

We’re the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the
change that we seek … what started as a whisper has swelled to a
chorus. It is a chorus that cannot be ignored. Barack Obama, February 5, 2008

I’ve been thinking.

Is feminism only for white women?

Is eradication
of racism more … or … less important than feminism?

Do white women
only stick to what is closest to themselves?

Lately, when I think of Clinton, for some reason, I am reminded of the Angel in Angels in America, saying "I, I, I ,I …" and how, therefore, Hillary can no longer represent me – a white woman.

For, I want to be a part of something bigger, wider, deeper, more inclusive – a diverse "we" – a chorus that cannot be ignored.

I remember what it felt like standing among so many others as different as we seemed, at the rally in Wilmington
on just this past Sunday, and how closely bonded – similar in our
humanity, hopes, dreams and hunger for justice we all were. I felt represented more
than I have felt in a long, long time.

I remember, only yesterday, the signs on our campus side-walks written in chalk by students all "fired up:"

I don’t remember seeing youth this charged and involved for a long, long time. Indeed, I am reminded of a young Tamarika,
long ago and far away in Africa, all idealistic and full of hope for the world, for the future, and I cherish
that memory of me. It is not nostalgia. It is real and true and strong. Those life cynics have not succeeded in "boiling" or "stewing" the hope out of me yet!

Yes indeed I am a feminist, but that’s no reason to vote for someone
who does not represent me, you, everyone of every color, religion,
class, sexual orientation, creed, gender.

So, Barack Obama, this gray haired, white woman, with her age sixty close by on the horizon, is sticking with you, as hard as it might be, for the days and weeks and months ahead.

A year ago at Mining Nuggets: I have a dream

Quote of the day:

Editor – I have attempted throughout my life to give a voice to the voiceless, hope to the hopeless, encouragement to the discouraged, and options to the cynical and complacent. From Northern Ireland to Sarajevo to Latin America, I have sung and marched, engaged in civil disobedience, visited war zones, and broken bread with those who had little bread to break.

Through all those years, I chose not to engage in party politics. Though I was asked many times to endorse candidates at every level, I was never comfortable doing so. At this time, however, changing that posture feels like the responsible thing to do. If anyone can navigate the contaminated waters of Washington, lift up the poor, and appeal to the rich to share their wealth, it is Sen. Barack Obama. If anyone can bring light to the darkened corners of this nation and restore our positive influence in world affairs, it is Barack Obama. If anyone can begin the process of healing and bring unity to a country that has been divided for too long, it is Barack Obama. It is time to begin a new journey. Joan Baez, San Francisco Chronicle

As Director of a large university campus child care center I was often faced with hiring new teachers. It was always a big responsibility to decide who would care for and educate very young children. For, how we interact with young children affects them for the rest of their lives. Sometimes I would have to choose between a young woman in her early to late twenties or an older woman in her forties or fifties. I would be torn between the years of experience a person would have with the youth of another. And at times I would realize that I was being ageist! Just because a person had experience did not mean she was right for the job. It would feel as if I was taking an enormous risk hiring the younger person. Because, for me, early childhood is the most crucial time of our lives.

It has nothing to do with age or experience, I realized. It has everything to do with the right person at the right time – for the job. Whatever it is.

Don’t be ageist, America. Have courage. We have walked in darkness for such a long time, it has become a habit. So that when a light shines ahead we feel blinded and scared. Take the risk and follow your heart, America. It is so seldom that an opportunity arises for us to take a completely different path, that we must seize it with all our hands and hearts and minds. I heard Jason Alexander say on CNN the other night that his head says one thing and his heart another. Follow your heart, Jason! The time is right here and now. Don’t be afraid. Don’t be ageist.

Standing amongst the most diverse crowd I have ever imagined in my dreams, yesterday in Wilmington, listening to the strong voice of Barack Obama describing what hope means for him, the tears tumbled and rolled down my cheeks with joy and relief as his words went directly into my heart and soul. And as the young white Republican woman next to me cheered and applauded right along with me, I whispered to myself through my tears: "Oh, have courage, America. Please, please, have courage! For I really don’t know when this time will come again."

A year ago at Mining Nuggets: The nature of change

We were there!

If Barack Obama is not the nominee I will certainly be in a fix.

For, if I hear the droning arrogant sound of Hillary Rodham Clinton‘s privileged, know-it-all voice for the next eight years I will definitely have to leave the country.

And, yes, I am a feminist!

Last year at Mining Nuggets: The kindness of strangers

[Celebrating Obama‘s victory with Ilene and Jeff]

"We are always editing ourselves," says my new found Philadelphia friend, Ilene. What I adore about Ilene is that she gets my mind searching and expanding. Her questions, ideas, and opinions make me think:

Where am I more real? As my private inner voice speaking publicly on my blog, or in the flesh, face-to-face? In writing or person-to-person. I wonder, do we ever really get to know anybody?

She says it is surreal and weird to be friends in the flesh with someone she reads about – the intimate, edited blog-side of me.

And I am grateful for the newly-found, in-the-flesh friendship, where I feel I can be real.

A year ago at Mining Nuggets: It never rains but it memes

How addicted can you be?
Well I found this at Euan Semple‘s place. I still have to spend a lot more time with my Macbook and i-Phone … but already I sense the stirrings of an addiction coming on. But for now …

32%How Addicted to Apple Are You?

… which is not bad, considering I have been using them for just one week!

Thanks, Euan.

Quote of the day:

Words: They’re waiting to be breathed into life—to be mustered up in military formation and marched dutifully in black rows onto white fields, or to be piled into incendiary heaps, anarchist bombs and unruly explosions spreading fire and chaos on the page and then running off in all directions. It depends. It depends on what you want your words to do. Do you write to change things, to make a difference, to expose injustice, to fight the power? You decide.  Bill Ayers